Monthly Archives: April 2018

Make Change Work for You in Your Divorce

When we experiences change in our life such as a divorce, we can control our response and reaction to the changes that are happening.   Our role as masters of our own destinies is cemented when we choose to make change work in our favor. Yet before we can truly internalize this power, we must accept that we cannot hide from the changes taking place all around us. Existence as we know it will come to an end at one or more points in our lives, making way for some new and perhaps unexpected mode of being. This transformation will take...Read More

The Benefits of Mediation in Divorce

It is universally agreed that when possible, allowing parties to make their own decisions that impact their own financial outcome with the assistance of a mediator is much better than having a judge tell everybody what to do.  The mediation process, because it is a negotiation, gives the parties a chance to seek a win-win resolution or to come up with alternative resolutions that benefit everyone involved. Litigation, while necessary in certain cases, is indeed a win-lose proposition. In effect, there can only be one “winner” or “loser” in trial. Trial is an exercise of loss of control by the...Read More

Divorce Coaching Coming Soon to South Florida Mediation Services

Each of the myriad decisions in divorce has the potential to have a deep impact on the lives of a divorcing party. Some choices touch to the very cores, awakening poignant feelings inside. Others seem at first to be simple but prove to be confusingly complex. Making the best decisions is best made from a balanced emotional and intellectual foundation so that both sides of an issue or alternative can be clearly seen. Likewise, accepting compromise is a natural fact of divorce and of life. Instead of relying solely on individual feelings or rationality, it can be very helpful to...Read More