Make Change Work for You in Your Divorce


When we experiences change in our life such as a divorce, we can control our response and reaction to the changes that are happening.  

Our role as masters of our own destinies is cemented when we choose to make change work in our favor. Yet before we can truly internalize this power, we must accept that we cannot hide from the changes taking place all around us. Existence as we know it will come to an end at one or more points in our lives, making way for some new and perhaps unexpected mode of being. This transformation will take place whether or not we want it to, and so it is up to us to decide whether we will open our eyes to the blessings hidden amidst disorder or close ourselves off from opportunities hiding behind obstacles.

To make change work for you, look constructively at your situation and ask yourself how you can benefit from the transformation that has taken place. As threatening as change can seem, it is often a sign that a new era of your life has begun. If you reevaluate your plans and goals in the days or weeks following divorce, you will discover that you can adapt your ambition to the circumstances before you and even capitalize on these changes.

Optimism, enthusiasm, and flexibility will aid you greatly here, as there is nothing to be gained by dwelling on what might have been. Change can hurt in the short term but, if you are willing to embrace it proactively, its lasting impact will nearly always be physically, spiritually, and intellectually transformative.

Divorce is difficult- emotionally and financially.  I am here to help you in your divorce or point you in the right direction.  Deborah Beylus 561789 0710 www.SouthFloridaMediationServices.com

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